i am looking for a complete working example of relationships and I cannot find one.

There is one example that states it uses relationships, but that appears to be associating a file object with another object.

I am trying to model Users as Players  to specific teams and then the teams to events/games.

the example provided in the documentation is frankly not that good since it is not complete... I have been googling for hours and there is not a lot out and about regarding this feature other than posts where other people are indicating that they are stuck and you guys asking to see there code.

Hey Aaron,

I'm going to shoot you an email about this,  

Thanks,